Alright, so this is a Daycare forum, and this isn't really DC related... but you've all helped me so much with my daycare issues, I'm hoping for an honest opinion for a family issue I'm dealing with.
My DD just turned 5 and she decided she would like to have a gymnastic party. We decided to invite all her friends (and this included the daycare friends, school friends). We had extra room so I invited my nephews that were 2 & 4. It was a blast, I took lots of pictures and posted them to Facebook. Shortly after posting, I received a note from my other SIL that she wanted me to untag my DH from the party pictures so that her 13 & 9 yr. old son didn't get his feelings hurt by not being invited?
We didn't invite them because it was a 5 yr. olds party where the average age of kid was 4. If we invited them, they'd run over all the little ones (there were about 15 kids total). She was hurt because we invited the other 2 nephews that were age appropriate. BTW, we have NEVER been invited to any of their kids parties (and I totally understand, my kids are too young!)
My question; Should she be upset that her 13 yr old hockey playing son wasn't invited to my daughters preschool gymnastics party? She said he was in tears? I think he was fine, but she convinced him he should feel hurt when she's the one that feels left out. AGE was the ONLY reason her children weren't invited (She's crazy, but we adore my nephews!). They're invited to the family party this weekend, and the invites were sent long before this gymnastic party?
Should I have invited her or called her to explain BEFORE the party? I just feel she should be a mature adult and explain to her 13 yr. old that he was too old for a preschool party and leave it at that. Am I being a bit*h?
My DD just turned 5 and she decided she would like to have a gymnastic party. We decided to invite all her friends (and this included the daycare friends, school friends). We had extra room so I invited my nephews that were 2 & 4. It was a blast, I took lots of pictures and posted them to Facebook. Shortly after posting, I received a note from my other SIL that she wanted me to untag my DH from the party pictures so that her 13 & 9 yr. old son didn't get his feelings hurt by not being invited?
We didn't invite them because it was a 5 yr. olds party where the average age of kid was 4. If we invited them, they'd run over all the little ones (there were about 15 kids total). She was hurt because we invited the other 2 nephews that were age appropriate. BTW, we have NEVER been invited to any of their kids parties (and I totally understand, my kids are too young!)
My question; Should she be upset that her 13 yr old hockey playing son wasn't invited to my daughters preschool gymnastics party? She said he was in tears? I think he was fine, but she convinced him he should feel hurt when she's the one that feels left out. AGE was the ONLY reason her children weren't invited (She's crazy, but we adore my nephews!). They're invited to the family party this weekend, and the invites were sent long before this gymnastic party?
Should I have invited her or called her to explain BEFORE the party? I just feel she should be a mature adult and explain to her 13 yr. old that he was too old for a preschool party and leave it at that. Am I being a bit*h?
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