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I have daily issues with hitting, kicking and pushing with dcb and dcg. I have had several discussions with parents who have "talks" with the children when they have done these things at dc. When one of them hits or pushes my consequences at daycare are that they have to shadow me for the day.
I have had these children six months and see no improvement in behavior. I feel it is something I am doing, because in my mind, I should see some change in the behavior.
These children are sibs and are 3 and 4 yo. They obviously play rough at home and I have spoken to that, but as I said, I have seen no positive results.
Dcb has shadowed me 3 days this week alone.
I want to explain that they don't hit hard, or push people down, but I've had other children lose their balance from being pushed and fall down and just the fact that this is always how they handle situations makes me very nervous. Other children could fall down stairs or off the slide, etc.
I see some of you have a zero tolerance rule for these actions, but honestly, I'd rather solve the issue if at all possible. These are pretty sweet kids that just, imo, have been allowed to develop some very hurtful and inappropriate habits.
What do others of you do? Do you even bring it up to parents if noone is getting hurt? What if parents seem to listen, but after many months you see no improvement? Help!
I have daily issues with hitting, kicking and pushing with dcb and dcg. I have had several discussions with parents who have "talks" with the children when they have done these things at dc. When one of them hits or pushes my consequences at daycare are that they have to shadow me for the day.
I have had these children six months and see no improvement in behavior. I feel it is something I am doing, because in my mind, I should see some change in the behavior.
These children are sibs and are 3 and 4 yo. They obviously play rough at home and I have spoken to that, but as I said, I have seen no positive results.
Dcb has shadowed me 3 days this week alone.
I want to explain that they don't hit hard, or push people down, but I've had other children lose their balance from being pushed and fall down and just the fact that this is always how they handle situations makes me very nervous. Other children could fall down stairs or off the slide, etc.
I see some of you have a zero tolerance rule for these actions, but honestly, I'd rather solve the issue if at all possible. These are pretty sweet kids that just, imo, have been allowed to develop some very hurtful and inappropriate habits.
What do others of you do? Do you even bring it up to parents if noone is getting hurt? What if parents seem to listen, but after many months you see no improvement? Help!
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