I tried to search the archives, but I couldn't find anything that really addressed this.
My group does so much of this its just gross. If someone accidentally pokes someone else with their toe at circle time - "Move!! You're kicking me!! Ms. ----!!!". They argue over every toy, turns on the computer, spaces in line, anything. They tell each other what to do and tattle all day.
I do not yell. I model respectful language and practice it with them. Yes, I tell people what to do, Im the adult. I ask them whenever possible, but sometimes I do have to use my firm voice.
Im really sick of the rudeness and arguments. I had enough this morning, and sat them down and told them anyone using rude voices or tattling about small stuff will get an automatic time out, no questions asked, and why. It worked pretty well for this morning, but i know it's only short term. I just couldn't listen to it anymore.
Any advice on how to teach them respect and how to play and work together nicely will be greatly appreciated.
My group does so much of this its just gross. If someone accidentally pokes someone else with their toe at circle time - "Move!! You're kicking me!! Ms. ----!!!". They argue over every toy, turns on the computer, spaces in line, anything. They tell each other what to do and tattle all day.
I do not yell. I model respectful language and practice it with them. Yes, I tell people what to do, Im the adult. I ask them whenever possible, but sometimes I do have to use my firm voice.
Im really sick of the rudeness and arguments. I had enough this morning, and sat them down and told them anyone using rude voices or tattling about small stuff will get an automatic time out, no questions asked, and why. It worked pretty well for this morning, but i know it's only short term. I just couldn't listen to it anymore.
Any advice on how to teach them respect and how to play and work together nicely will be greatly appreciated.
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