OK....I have a question for all of you.
I have a 4 yr old dcb who does NOT want me wiping him, or even BEING in the bathroom at the same time he is.
I feel, that once a child expresses this to me, I am going to respect his decision, and his body.
I also think it has become a liability issue. I would hate for him to tell someone I touch him even after he says no.
Well, dad is having a fit that the boy goes home with "chicken tracks" in his underwear. He's even gone so far as to say he is actually pooping in his pants and I'm making him sit in it. Which I know is BS...no pun intended.
Mom has no issue and says she never sees anything in his undies. He's not red or sore, or complaining at all about it.
I think, honestly, dad is just trying to pick a fight. (they are divorced)
So my question is, am I wrong for not wanting to touch his butt anymore?
I KNOW they will not wipe his butt next year in pre-k.
I have a 4 yr old dcb who does NOT want me wiping him, or even BEING in the bathroom at the same time he is.
I feel, that once a child expresses this to me, I am going to respect his decision, and his body.
I also think it has become a liability issue. I would hate for him to tell someone I touch him even after he says no.
Well, dad is having a fit that the boy goes home with "chicken tracks" in his underwear. He's even gone so far as to say he is actually pooping in his pants and I'm making him sit in it. Which I know is BS...no pun intended.
Mom has no issue and says she never sees anything in his undies. He's not red or sore, or complaining at all about it.
I think, honestly, dad is just trying to pick a fight. (they are divorced)
So my question is, am I wrong for not wanting to touch his butt anymore?
I KNOW they will not wipe his butt next year in pre-k.
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