I have a family that is some what new. Been here a few months.
Lately, the DCP will show up early to pick up the child an hour or so early, but then all of a sudden next thing I know the kid has made his way to my kitchen and is getting himself something to eat or demanding a drink.
I let it happen once before by mistake and when it attempted to happen again last week, I cut it off immediately. I tell the child sorry, snack time was 45 min ago, the kitchen is closed, you need to go home now. Oh btw, I have a NO shoe policy and he had his shoes on full of sand dumping sand all over my entire house. I then tell him, you need to get your shoes off in the house please.
As soon as my words leave my mouth, the child throws himself down kicking and screaming. AND here is where it gets ugly. Mom gets down on her knees and says oh no, are you ok, awe poor baby. Looks up at me and says can you please get him a snack??????????
REALLY???? I have never dealt with a child like this or a parent like this. I tend to be a push over at times, but then when I get fed up, I tend to take it too far. When this happened, I said loudly and clearly, it's time for you to go home. BUT then mom says oh well, you don't close for another hour.......
HOw many buttons are they going to push on me in one day???
I know some of you have had to deal with parents and children like this...Please please please help me before I lose it......
Oh and thank you in advance for your thoughts, opinion and advice...
Lately, the DCP will show up early to pick up the child an hour or so early, but then all of a sudden next thing I know the kid has made his way to my kitchen and is getting himself something to eat or demanding a drink.
I let it happen once before by mistake and when it attempted to happen again last week, I cut it off immediately. I tell the child sorry, snack time was 45 min ago, the kitchen is closed, you need to go home now. Oh btw, I have a NO shoe policy and he had his shoes on full of sand dumping sand all over my entire house. I then tell him, you need to get your shoes off in the house please.
As soon as my words leave my mouth, the child throws himself down kicking and screaming. AND here is where it gets ugly. Mom gets down on her knees and says oh no, are you ok, awe poor baby. Looks up at me and says can you please get him a snack??????????
REALLY???? I have never dealt with a child like this or a parent like this. I tend to be a push over at times, but then when I get fed up, I tend to take it too far. When this happened, I said loudly and clearly, it's time for you to go home. BUT then mom says oh well, you don't close for another hour.......
HOw many buttons are they going to push on me in one day???
I know some of you have had to deal with parents and children like this...Please please please help me before I lose it......
Oh and thank you in advance for your thoughts, opinion and advice...
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