I don't know where to begin. Firstly, the biggest problem right now, is that EVERYONE is sick. But how do I stop the passing it around? Parents send kids hopped up on tylenol and then their fever spikes just before lunch. I send home for the day and then the next. They have already exposed the others, and now they are all coming down with crap. It has been going on for almost a month. I can't remember the last day I didn't send anyone home sick. The parents are getting grouchy from being called all the time, I am getting sick now and I am soooooooo tired of watching everyones sick kids. I am a WELL daycare. They try to blame everything on teething. WTH ever!!! How can I enjoy my job when all I do is care for sick kids? They whine constantly and we have to just continually rotate thru snuggling the sick kids. So. Tired. Of. It.
The naughty kids. I have a few. It has gotten better since I decided to take the power back from a few of them by putting them in pnp's in a seperate room so that they couldn't do everything they could to irritate me more. That has helped. But still, it is a lot of disuption. It takes so much time away from the other kids. Here are the behaviors I am having a hard time curbing:
Running - There really isn't a lot of running room, but they run in circles. It is annoying. I get after them so much about this. I could put my voice on a loop repeating "Walking feet" over an over.
Taking toys from the babies - This is constant too. I think a couple of the older kids like to hear the babies cry.
Hitting/pushing/throwing things at eachother - The older boys are very physical. I almost need a seperate room for each of them!
Disrespect - Being spit at, being told no, my assistant was told "I hate you" by one of the kids. Whatever happened to respect your elders?!
Breaking things - I throw out at least a couple toys a week. Most recently, they have broken roads off of our car table. I keep trying to glue them back on, but they lean/lay on it or smash their cars on the roads and break them free. I am just tired of the disrespect of my things. Also of my home. They kick walls, throw things at the walls. I have chips in some of the walls/sheet rock. I take pride in how my home looks. I just can't believe the disrespect.
Ok, the babies. They are all needy/clingy. It is making it really hard to do anything. The colicky baby screams almost all day. The parents are fantastic, and doing everything they can to change it. The mom feels awful for us, and tells us daily how wonderful we are and that she couldn't do the job we do. I appreciate that. But it is still so hard and tiring. The 8 month old is just whiney. Constant whining/crying. He hasn't started crawling and HATES to be on his stomach still. He has a HUGE head, and can't hold it up well for long. So don't know if he is just tired from holding up his big noggin or what. But tiring. And he is a pretty big so I can't tote him around all day.
Parents. They just take advantage. They leave their kids here the max amount of hours they can. Most of my kids are here from open to close. Whether they need to be or not. That makes me sad. No wonder their kids have behavioral problems! Ten hours a day in someone else's home is a lot. Parents keep breaking rules. No outside food. I have a couple parents who constantly send their kids in with food. Crappy food. Pop tarts, fruit snacks, sugary dry cereal,etc. I have repeated myself so many times, I just stopped and just take the food from the child and either hand it back to the parent or put it in the garbage. Also, kids bring toys. I do the same with the toys. Either put it in the bag/coat sleeve or hand back to the parent. Do they not understand the issues this causes?!
I wish each parent could come work in the daycare for one week each, then maybe they would have a new appreciation of what we do!
Ideas? Things have to change. Only thing is, just getting rid of kids won't work. I need to stay full. I have a waiting list, but most are sibling sets with babies. I do NOT want any more babies!
The naughty kids. I have a few. It has gotten better since I decided to take the power back from a few of them by putting them in pnp's in a seperate room so that they couldn't do everything they could to irritate me more. That has helped. But still, it is a lot of disuption. It takes so much time away from the other kids. Here are the behaviors I am having a hard time curbing:
Running - There really isn't a lot of running room, but they run in circles. It is annoying. I get after them so much about this. I could put my voice on a loop repeating "Walking feet" over an over.
Taking toys from the babies - This is constant too. I think a couple of the older kids like to hear the babies cry.
Hitting/pushing/throwing things at eachother - The older boys are very physical. I almost need a seperate room for each of them!
Disrespect - Being spit at, being told no, my assistant was told "I hate you" by one of the kids. Whatever happened to respect your elders?!
Breaking things - I throw out at least a couple toys a week. Most recently, they have broken roads off of our car table. I keep trying to glue them back on, but they lean/lay on it or smash their cars on the roads and break them free. I am just tired of the disrespect of my things. Also of my home. They kick walls, throw things at the walls. I have chips in some of the walls/sheet rock. I take pride in how my home looks. I just can't believe the disrespect.
Ok, the babies. They are all needy/clingy. It is making it really hard to do anything. The colicky baby screams almost all day. The parents are fantastic, and doing everything they can to change it. The mom feels awful for us, and tells us daily how wonderful we are and that she couldn't do the job we do. I appreciate that. But it is still so hard and tiring. The 8 month old is just whiney. Constant whining/crying. He hasn't started crawling and HATES to be on his stomach still. He has a HUGE head, and can't hold it up well for long. So don't know if he is just tired from holding up his big noggin or what. But tiring. And he is a pretty big so I can't tote him around all day.
Parents. They just take advantage. They leave their kids here the max amount of hours they can. Most of my kids are here from open to close. Whether they need to be or not. That makes me sad. No wonder their kids have behavioral problems! Ten hours a day in someone else's home is a lot. Parents keep breaking rules. No outside food. I have a couple parents who constantly send their kids in with food. Crappy food. Pop tarts, fruit snacks, sugary dry cereal,etc. I have repeated myself so many times, I just stopped and just take the food from the child and either hand it back to the parent or put it in the garbage. Also, kids bring toys. I do the same with the toys. Either put it in the bag/coat sleeve or hand back to the parent. Do they not understand the issues this causes?!
I wish each parent could come work in the daycare for one week each, then maybe they would have a new appreciation of what we do!
Ideas? Things have to change. Only thing is, just getting rid of kids won't work. I need to stay full. I have a waiting list, but most are sibling sets with babies. I do NOT want any more babies!
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