I had a parent bring some treats for the kids to take home. My almost 3yr old (from the thread last week with the crying, spitting, etc) asked this morning if she could eat them for lunch. I said no, that they are to take home, but we have to be good today and maybe we can have a little of it with snack. That satisfied her for awhile.
Well, today has been a pretty off day for everyone. Not listening, throwing things, pushing, etc. I told everyone that their treats would be staying here and maybe tomorrow they could take them home if we had a better day. The others were fine with it, but the 3yr old goes into a HUGE tantrum. Screaming, crying, yelling, spitting, swatting. I put her in "her" spot and said when she was done she could rejoin us. Well, that went on until lunch and thru it. So, guess who went for an early nap?
As I was putting her down, she asked about the treats and I told her maybe tomorrow and left.
Am I wrong for telling them they can't take them home today? I know if I send them home, they are going to be eating them before they even get to the car. I don't want them to think that their behavior today warranted a special treat.
Well, today has been a pretty off day for everyone. Not listening, throwing things, pushing, etc. I told everyone that their treats would be staying here and maybe tomorrow they could take them home if we had a better day. The others were fine with it, but the 3yr old goes into a HUGE tantrum. Screaming, crying, yelling, spitting, swatting. I put her in "her" spot and said when she was done she could rejoin us. Well, that went on until lunch and thru it. So, guess who went for an early nap?
As I was putting her down, she asked about the treats and I told her maybe tomorrow and left.
Am I wrong for telling them they can't take them home today? I know if I send them home, they are going to be eating them before they even get to the car. I don't want them to think that their behavior today warranted a special treat.
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