Potty - For US

[newtoeverything]

Thanks everyone for chewing me up and spitting me out.... The only 2 children I have right now are my friends' kids. Once I start getting more, I can see it being a problem. I wanted to get some ideas on what to do, I'm new at this. Thanks!

[DBug]

HAHAHAHAHA! Thanks DBug for my laugh for the day! ::

I was serious -- I really want to know! I have girlfriends that don't have an issue with their own kids in the washroom with them, and I've never had the guts to ask them

And newtoeverything, this job is full of learning experiences (I'll have been at it for a year soon, and I've learned sooo much!). Some parents may be okay with the bathroom door being open -- it may be something you just need to ask the parents about. That said, I don't know if there are licensing regulations pertaining to it that you may need to adhere to, even if the parents don't mind.

The other option, of course, is to get a video baby monitor to put in the playroom and take the receiver with you ... peace of mind, and no potential boundaries crossed.

[gkids09]

I actually have an assistant, so this isn't a problem for me, but, and I am NOT kidding, I did have a PARENT who used to come in and just go to the bathroom with the door wide open. It only happened a couple of times, and then I had to say something. I am sorry, but I was NOT interested in watching her do her business, and no one else was either!!

[Former Teacher]

I was serious -- I really want to know! I have girlfriends that don't have an issue with their own kids in the washroom with them, and I've never had the guts to ask them

I know you were serious but this morning when I read it I just got a funny giggle going. No harm meant

Thanks everyone for chewing me up and spitting me out.... The only 2 children I have right now are my friends' kids. Once I start getting more, I can see it being a problem. I wanted to get some ideas on what to do, I'm new at this. Thanks!

We ALL have to start somewhere. I was only 17 years old when I started in childcare and believe me I am still learning after all these years! As for chewing you up and all, thats what friends are for j/k

[Daycare Mommy]

I just make sure everyone is getting along and may give a distraction if needed so I can get my potty break in peace. (And this is meant in the kindest way. No chewing you up or spitting you out intended. ) I don't give them the option to come in. Door gets closed and locked. I'm shy to begin with and don't think it's appropriate anyway, but aside from that it would make some parents (not to mention Social Services) FLIP OUT if they knew and as you build up clients you'll get all types.. So ya I'd phase that out and master the art of distracting them. If they're little guys pack n plays or high chairs with an interesting toy works. For the older ones new toys, or i set them up coloring, or if i just need a moment I'll set them up with a quick youtube video (pre-screened by yourself of course) of funny cats or something. Ooh and here's a favorite of ours. http://www.badgerbadgerbadger.com/ They go positively hysterical and "badger dance" the whole time I'm on my break. Here's another favorite: Snuggle Bunny They all sing along to this one, it's so sweet!

[AfterSchoolMom]

I'm going to have that badger thing in my head for the rest of my life! Haha!

[ghostlykisses]

Thank goodness I homeschool and can count on my 10yo dd or 11yo ds can keep an eye on things when I need to use the potty.

If I did not have that luxary I would put little ones in a pnp or high chair and do my business fast.

I agree with the people who say letting the dck in the bathroom is not ok. It may be fine with your own children and you can be very discrete but these are not your own children. There are way too many ways that someone could mistake an innocent safety measure as something unsavory. I guess if it was an infant 6 months or under and you did not want the baby to start screaming and wake other kids or something it might be ok, but not anyone older.

[originalkat]

Thanks everyone for chewing me up and spitting me out.... The only 2 children I have right now are my friends' kids. Once I start getting more, I can see it being a problem. I wanted to get some ideas on what to do, I'm new at this. Thanks!

Dont feel bad ... With my own kids we have an open door potty house. That is just how we are. But with the other kids I close the door.
However, numerous times kids just open it right on up (we dont have a lock). I dont make it a practice to let the kids in but sometimes they find a way anyway.)::

As you can see from the responses...many parents have different privacy boundaries so that should be respected.

[Janet]

When nature calls...

I answer! My bladder waits for no child, ! I don't have a lock on the bathroom door, I used to but I had a couple of little turds who thought it was great fun to lock the door and close it behind them because then Ms. Janet could take the door aoart for them!! Yep, no lock. It sucks because I am forever getting walked in on. My 3yo dcg came in with the 3 yo dcg while I was sitting on the potty peeing. I was like, "ummm...ladies? Can I get you 2 to just go ahead and leave the bathroom. I'd like some privacy. The older girl was like "it's OK, we're girls too. We can be privates together." I got a kick out of that but I really do prefer my potty time alone.