So now that my 7th grader has to sit at the kit table to use is phone that is all he does. He used to play cars and legos with the other children. I think it is sad.
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Originally posted by bbo View PostI dont know how long he's there everyday, but how about a compromise? Maybe 30 minutes max per day?
So it get taken away when we get here at 3:15 he does not get it back until after snack 3:35 or later, then it get taken away again for homework/quiet time 4-5, so he only has it for less than 25 min. then after homework/quiet time he can have it back usually get picked up between 5:30 - 6:00.
I like the idea of a time limit. As a parent of teenagers I think it is sad that today most "young" people communicate mostly or entirely VIA texting. But that is a little off topic.
I will wait and see with DCB's cell phone use. Mom still has not signed the "new" policies page in regards to the cell phone so I am not sure how she fells about the subject.
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Sounds to me like this one child is creating issues for you in your own business. Maybe instead of letting a client try to make you go through extra headaches, worries, trying to change your rules to allow a child to do things that you don't really want done in your own daycare, maybe you should try to replace him with a younger child who would not be bringing a cell phone in and would be a better fit for your daycare the way you want to run it. You can start advertising, then once you get a new child lined up to start in a week or two, give this parent a week or two's notice. Just let them know that their child has really gotten too old to be in your childcare or that he is no longer happy with the toys/activities that you have for the children so it is no longer a good fit for him.
I just would not let a client try to tell me how to run my own business or try to make me make changes that I know I really don't want to make.
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I considered after school kids and was going to have a no electronics policy. If it is here, it stays in the backpack or put up. Maybe I missed it but why do you have to let him have it at all? Even at a separate table, he can still access stuff (that you would then be liable for) or can still be taking pictures and such. Seems like extra work to try and supervise his use and keep the other kids away from the phone. I don't care if he is in junior high, I wouldn't add to the screen addiction. My nephew had all his electronics out on a family camping trip. It was ridiculous....why go camping at all if you are just going to let your kid sit on his bum and play videogames for 3 days?
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I posted this on the original page of this topic then just thought maybe I should have posted it here since this is the current page of this topic....
I do not allow anything to be brought from the home. If I watch school age children, they must leave everything in their bookbag which stays in their cubbies at all times while the child is in my daycare home.
I would not allow cell phone use in my daycare at all. I would probably rather them put their cell phones in a container (bucket or whatever) on the counter where they were out of the children's reach but I could check them initally to make sure they were not set to record anything.
Here are some potential problems
child takes pics of other children in daycare and place their pics on the internet - which that particular child would not have permission from the other children's parents to have done.
child pulls up ***** on the internet - most likely won't happen, but the provider really can not monitor what the child is doing on the cell phone - basically, the child's behavior on the phone is unsupervised. If found out that did happen, the daycare provider would be in all sorts of trouble with the child's parents, licensing, and the law!
child starts problems with other children through facebook or other internet sites - if found out that happened while under your supervision, you might have problems with the parents of both families and maybe the law - if things between the children get too out of control - afterall, you are supposed to be supervising the child's behavior, so if the child harrasses/bullies another person especially excessively while under your supervision, you might be responsible for allowing that to happen.
child records things said at daycare - which sometimes, things taken out of content can be misunderstood - the daycare provider, having really done nothing wrong might have to explain something that the child has recorded and has proof of that doesn't sound so good - even though the provider knows that it's only a portion of what was being said/happinging. Simply put, the provider does not need any extra worry by a child being able to record whatever bits and pieces they want.
Then of course simple things such as the phone being broken by another child and the parents trying to make the provider pay for a new phone, the unfairness to the other children ( there aren't additional phones for everyone to be able to have one and the one child won't share his one phone), it makes the child with the cell phone be withdrawn from the socialization of the others that are physically around him and he becomes personally anti-social, etc.
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Originally posted by cheerfuldom View Postalso why have you not given a limit on when the new policies must be signed? I always give a one week limit to respond to any new paperwork.
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Originally posted by permanentvacation View PostSounds to me like this one child is creating issues for you in your own business. Maybe instead of letting a client try to make you go through extra headaches, worries, trying to change your rules to allow a child to do things that you don't really want done in your own daycare, maybe you should try to replace him with a younger child who would not be bringing a cell phone in and would be a better fit for your daycare the way you want to run it. You can start advertising, then once you get a new child lined up to start in a week or two, give this parent a week or two's notice. Just let them know that their child has really gotten too old to be in your childcare or that he is no longer happy with the toys/activities that you have for the children so it is no longer a good fit for him.
I just would not let a client try to tell me how to run my own business or try to make me make changes that I know I really don't want to make.
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Why is it that cell phones have taken over the world?! What happened to parents taking on the world?! We do everyday and guess what?! None of my children have a cell phone and my oldest is a sophomore in high school!
Children today are all about gimme, gimme, gimme. I'm restoring the please, the thank you, the yes maam, the no maam, and the fact that if you want it, you must EARN it!
My children all get the story about how I got my first car, how I rented for years, how I used savings and a settlement to buy a home, how I HAVE to work to provide them with food for their tummies and water to wash their clothes.
My kids know that EVERYTHING COSTS MONEY, NOTHING IS FREE, YOU MUST WORK, EARN AND SAVE FOR THE UNPREDICTABLE, AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A WANT AND A NEED!
A cell phone is a want...it's never a need! Especially for a child!!!
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Originally posted by wdmmom View PostWhy is it that cell phones have taken over the world?! What happened to parents taking on the world?! We do everyday and guess what?! None of my children have a cell phone and my oldest is a sophomore in high school!
Children today are all about gimme, gimme, gimme. I'm restoring the please, the thank you, the yes maam, the no maam, and the fact that if you want it, you must EARN it!
My children all get the story about how I got my first car, how I rented for years, how I used savings and a settlement to buy a home, how I HAVE to work to provide them with food for their tummies and water to wash their clothes.
My kids know that EVERYTHING COSTS MONEY, NOTHING IS FREE, YOU MUST WORK, EARN AND SAVE FOR THE UNPREDICTABLE, AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A WANT AND A NEED!
A cell phone is a want...it's never a need! Especially for a child!!!
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My granddaughter has had a cell for several years. She also goes to school 20 miles away from home. Mom drops her off 30 mins before school and someone picks her up 30 mins after school. That someone can be Mom, Aunt, Grandma, Grandpa, Dad, or Uncle. Different people pick her up at different spot because of the direction they're coming from.
As for your daycare boy, I'll repeat myself. The cell phone needs to be put away while he is in your home. You will find that it will cause you a lot of problems.
My 8 yo dcb has a cell phone that he keeps in his backpack, but I have never seen it. It does not come out in my home.
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Originally posted by wdmmom View PostWhy is it that cell phones have taken over the world?! What happened to parents taking on the world?! We do everyday and guess what?! None of my children have a cell phone and my oldest is a sophomore in high school!
Children today are all about gimme, gimme, gimme. I'm restoring the please, the thank you, the yes maam, the no maam, and the fact that if you want it, you must EARN it!
My children all get the story about how I got my first car, how I rented for years, how I used savings and a settlement to buy a home, how I HAVE to work to provide them with food for their tummies and water to wash their clothes.
My kids know that EVERYTHING COSTS MONEY, NOTHING IS FREE, YOU MUST WORK, EARN AND SAVE FOR THE UNPREDICTABLE, AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A WANT AND A NEED!
A cell phone is a want...it's never a need! Especially for a child!!!
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