New family (B), DCB is 3.5, and potty training. I was under the impression that he was farther along.
So dcm asked if I send him to the bathroom, I said yes about every two hours during diaper changes. That he is always wet, really wet, and when I ask him if he is wet, he says no. Basically, he does not hold it but can do everything else by himself, even snap his jeans.
She says she sends him every 30 minutes. There is no way, I could do that with my own child when I was potty training her.
So this is the issue, when I send him to the bathroom, he goes in happily, sits down on the toilet then calls me and says, "I am done". I come back and he is just sitting there. Did you pee? NO
Basically...
Go potty
Sit down, I'm done
Put on the new pull-up
I'm done
Put on your pants
I'm done
Flush the toilet
I'm done
Wash your hands
He will not move on to the next step without me coming back to check on him. Help, I tried telling him the steps ahead of time and had him repeat them back to me but still, I'm done, after every step. How do I break this habit of needing someone every step of the way?
Family (A) DCB is 3.10 he holds himself all day and does not go to the bathroom on his own. He holds himself all day. At first, I did not realize that he did not go on his own because I send them before we go outside, before and after naptime. Then this week, we did not go out because of bad weather, he held himself all day until he peed himself. DCM then tells me that if he had not gone in a couple of hours, she sends him to go. ugh. So he does not really go on his own.
The day that he wet himself, I asked him what was wrong but since he will not talk to me, so I was unable to figure out what was wrong until he peed.
Now, I am paying attention to when he goes or does not go and started chanting, when we gotta go potty we go right away.
Today he did the same thing and held it for a while but he went on his own, and when he did he peed a lot. (I think that he arrives with a fullish bladder, so I may try to send him right away and see if that helps)
But here is the weird thing when he poops, he does it standing up, backed up to the toilet with the toilet seat up. I told dcm, and she seemed shocked that he would do that and said that he uses a potty ring at home. I told her that the seat had one built-in. (there is a stool right next to the toilet, too) I even showed him how to use the toilet seat and he does this. (great problem solving)
However he does not talk to me, he just stands there when he is done because he does not know how to wipe. Plus I have to clean my toilet every time he does this. (for the most part, he gets it in the bowl but not into the water part)
Thoughts on what to try?
So dcm asked if I send him to the bathroom, I said yes about every two hours during diaper changes. That he is always wet, really wet, and when I ask him if he is wet, he says no. Basically, he does not hold it but can do everything else by himself, even snap his jeans.
She says she sends him every 30 minutes. There is no way, I could do that with my own child when I was potty training her.
So this is the issue, when I send him to the bathroom, he goes in happily, sits down on the toilet then calls me and says, "I am done". I come back and he is just sitting there. Did you pee? NO
Basically...
Go potty
Sit down, I'm done
Put on the new pull-up
I'm done
Put on your pants
I'm done
Flush the toilet
I'm done
Wash your hands
He will not move on to the next step without me coming back to check on him. Help, I tried telling him the steps ahead of time and had him repeat them back to me but still, I'm done, after every step. How do I break this habit of needing someone every step of the way?
Family (A) DCB is 3.10 he holds himself all day and does not go to the bathroom on his own. He holds himself all day. At first, I did not realize that he did not go on his own because I send them before we go outside, before and after naptime. Then this week, we did not go out because of bad weather, he held himself all day until he peed himself. DCM then tells me that if he had not gone in a couple of hours, she sends him to go. ugh. So he does not really go on his own.
The day that he wet himself, I asked him what was wrong but since he will not talk to me, so I was unable to figure out what was wrong until he peed.
Now, I am paying attention to when he goes or does not go and started chanting, when we gotta go potty we go right away.
Today he did the same thing and held it for a while but he went on his own, and when he did he peed a lot. (I think that he arrives with a fullish bladder, so I may try to send him right away and see if that helps)
But here is the weird thing when he poops, he does it standing up, backed up to the toilet with the toilet seat up. I told dcm, and she seemed shocked that he would do that and said that he uses a potty ring at home. I told her that the seat had one built-in. (there is a stool right next to the toilet, too) I even showed him how to use the toilet seat and he does this. (great problem solving)
However he does not talk to me, he just stands there when he is done because he does not know how to wipe. Plus I have to clean my toilet every time he does this. (for the most part, he gets it in the bowl but not into the water part)
Thoughts on what to try?
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