It’s funny because I’ve had vacant spots forever and only inquiries from families waving red flags for about a year. So here is my new dilemma… I have 4 that are expecting. Obviously, I won’t have room for all 4. Two are long term families, one started about 6 months ago, one started last week and specifically found me because both kids can be in one daycare.
The long term families - one won’t need care until end of the year and this is my golden family so we agreed to confirm plans in May and secure the spot. The last one won’t tell me due date when I specifically ask (I ask when in spring are you due? And she’ll reply very soon!).
I haven’t straight out asked what their childcare plans are because when they told me they were expecting, they said something along the lines of basically don’t ask because they didn’t know…
Here’s my dilemma - I don’t want to enroll infant. This is a family that is tolerable, but when the current child ages out, I will have a little party if you know what I mean. They’re exhausting. It feels like every few months I need to have a talk with them about rudeness and respecting me. Their excuse is that DCD is blunt, but there’s a line between blunt and rude and they cross it. It’s an uphill battle for everything. I’ll ask for diapers and they sigh because they JUST brought some. I will ask for back up clothes and they’ll sigh because now they have to do laundry. I send a child home sick and sigh, now they’ll have to waste a day at the doctors. Basically, tolerable but I don’t want to extend 3-4 more years until Infant ages out.
I may be overthinking this and who knows, they may pull the current child last minute (which is crappy but I’ll be fine). Do I just keep going and when they say ‘when can the baby start?’ Act shocked and say unmmm I’m full? Get ahead of it and let them now know that we’re at capacity?
The long term families - one won’t need care until end of the year and this is my golden family so we agreed to confirm plans in May and secure the spot. The last one won’t tell me due date when I specifically ask (I ask when in spring are you due? And she’ll reply very soon!).
I haven’t straight out asked what their childcare plans are because when they told me they were expecting, they said something along the lines of basically don’t ask because they didn’t know…
Here’s my dilemma - I don’t want to enroll infant. This is a family that is tolerable, but when the current child ages out, I will have a little party if you know what I mean. They’re exhausting. It feels like every few months I need to have a talk with them about rudeness and respecting me. Their excuse is that DCD is blunt, but there’s a line between blunt and rude and they cross it. It’s an uphill battle for everything. I’ll ask for diapers and they sigh because they JUST brought some. I will ask for back up clothes and they’ll sigh because now they have to do laundry. I send a child home sick and sigh, now they’ll have to waste a day at the doctors. Basically, tolerable but I don’t want to extend 3-4 more years until Infant ages out.
I may be overthinking this and who knows, they may pull the current child last minute (which is crappy but I’ll be fine). Do I just keep going and when they say ‘when can the baby start?’ Act shocked and say unmmm I’m full? Get ahead of it and let them now know that we’re at capacity?
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