I have a problem...my dcb mom told me that she is pregnant and will need care for infant in Dec. I know I am worrying about this too soon but I just want to get a plan.
In Dec I will have:
- 2yo dcb
- 10mo dcg
- 15mo dcb
- 3yo dcb: this is the boy whose mom just told me she is pregnant
my own kids:
- 3yo girl
- 5 mo
I cannot take her new baby because I would have too many under 24 months. I dont think they would give me a variance for 9 months so I would have to let one of them go.
Who do I let go:
15mo dcb: parents are very nice and I am becoming friends with the mom but he only comes in the afternoon.
3 yo dcb with new baby: would bring in more money to keep them but I do not have as close of a relationship with the mom. Also dcb is the same age as my girl and they have fun.
Who do I let go and if I let the 15 mo go...what do I say? It just doesnt seem fair because 15mo was here first.
In Dec I will have:
- 2yo dcb
- 10mo dcg
- 15mo dcb
- 3yo dcb: this is the boy whose mom just told me she is pregnant
my own kids:
- 3yo girl
- 5 mo
I cannot take her new baby because I would have too many under 24 months. I dont think they would give me a variance for 9 months so I would have to let one of them go.
Who do I let go:
15mo dcb: parents are very nice and I am becoming friends with the mom but he only comes in the afternoon.
3 yo dcb with new baby: would bring in more money to keep them but I do not have as close of a relationship with the mom. Also dcb is the same age as my girl and they have fun.
Who do I let go and if I let the 15 mo go...what do I say? It just doesnt seem fair because 15mo was here first.
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